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3 Gifts You Can Give Yourself and Others

By Lyndon Marcotte 

I’m really looking forward to our local meditation group’s weekend retreat, and I’m also a little apprehensive about it too. Life has been clipping along at a furious pace these past few weeks. There have been lots of heartache, some new challenges, as well as great opportunities. I could personally use the retreat to slow down and allow time and space to process what’s been going on and prepare for what’s coming, but I’m afraid that the retreat will either be a jarring abrupt stop or just something else to get through and on to the next thing. I’m reminded that a retreat as well as  a regular meditation practice offers us three gifts that have the potential to restore balance and sanity to our lives.

Seclusion

The idea of “getting away” can seem like running away from your life. We’ve all had plenty of practice at avoiding pain and discomfort. What makes spending a weekend away or 15 minutes every morning meditating any different? When we practice meditation we are not escaping to our happy place where we are cut off from difficult people and emotions. Anyone who has tried meditation even once will tell you that they will find us there also.

The busyness of our life buys into our idea of who we think we are and the roles we play. The easiest place to avoid your life is actually right in the middle of all the hectic day to day drama we get caught up in. Our to do lists can sweep us away in a mindless current of activity that takes us further and further away from sanity.

By purposely carving out a few minutes a day or even a weekend once in a while to unplug from the madness gives us an opportunity to see clearly and reconnect with our lives on a very basic level. It may seem selfish to make time for yourself because we believe we are so very important and the world will fall apart without our efforts. It can be a disappointment to the ego to realize that life goes on with or without consent just fine. Are we really showing up for our loved ones if the self we offer them is frayed, exhausted, and empty? The truth is that taking the time to “get away” actually enables us to show up more fully for the people we care for and the rest of our lives as well.

Silence

There are so few places and moments in our day that are truly quiet. From the moment we wake up to the moment we lay down at night we fill the time with noise. Facebook, television, music, meetings, and idle conversation are all on standby to keep us comfortable at a moment’s notice, helping us to avoid silence at all cost. What is it about crickets and pins dropping that makes us so uncomfortable?

I think silence forces us to hear the thoughts that we’ve been trying to drown and feel the emotions that we try so desperately to delay. When immersed in silence we come face to face with ourselves and a sense of nowness that we aren’t entirely sure what to do with. It always easier to default to the past or grasp at the future than to stand on the razor’s edge of now.

The irony of course is that the silence we find so deafening is exactly what we need to truly listen. We will never resolve our neuroses by layering them under noise. Silence helps us to rediscover basic awareness, an undercurrent of sanity available to us in every moment. It’s only by entering the cavernous depths of silence that we can tune out the noise and tune in to the truth of who we are. That’s a truth that we can carry back with us into our daily lives to keep us grounded and whole.

Space

When we get alone and get quiet, there’s no place to hide from yourself. Living a contemplative life of meditation or prayer is not all fairies and rainbows. It can be dark at times and difficult. There’s no getting around it. We can only go through it, but on the other side of a racing mind and raging heart there is space. Lots and lots of space. Plenty of room to walk around in, to explore, to work things out, to let things be. More space than you know what to do with. So much space that it makes you feel so very small, but so much space that it makes you feel so very free.

We discover in seclusion and silence untapped reserves of creativity, possibility, and potential. While it can be overwhelming, it can also be invigorating and inspiring. We learn that we’re not so trapped as it seemed. We don’t have to be a prisoner of our thoughts and every fleeting emotion. We don’t have to live on autopilot numb to the the world. We can risk getting up close with it all and not be overtaken by it. We can show up fully for our lives every day letting it all unfold around us, within us, and through us.

It doesn’t take a weekend away to find these gifts in your life. Even a few minutes a day to let yourself sit down, to rest, and to be can be a gift you give yourself and ultimately to others also.

Retreat Favorites: Coconut Lentil Curry

Coconut Lentil Curry
as prepared by Lyndon Marcotte

Ingredients: 

  • 1 lb bag of dry lentils
  • 3-4 small red potatoes diced
  • 1 cup of shredded or chopped carrots
  • 1 small onion
  • 1 tsp minced garlic
  • 1 cup of coconut milk
  • 1 TBS or more Madras Curry Powder to taste
  • Garnish with traditional plain Greek Yogurt and unsalted dry peanuts

Cover lentils in water or vegetable broth to slow cook. Add vegetables once boiling. Cook down to thicken, then pour in coconut milk to make it creamy, add Madras Curry Powder to taste. Garnish with a dollop of traditional plain Greek yogurt and unsalted dry peanuts.

Retreat Favorites: Roasted Red Pepper Hummus

Roasted Red Pepper Hummus
as prepared by Lyndon Marcotte

Ingredients:

  • 2 cans Chickpeas (Garbonzo Beans)
  • 1 TBS Tahini
  • 1 tsp minced garlic
  • 1 red bell pepper
  • 1 tsp ground cumin
  • 1/2 tsp paprika
  • Black and/or Red Pepper to taste

Roast red bell pepper over open flame till slightly tender. Mix all ingredients in a blender until desired consistency. Serve with warm pita bread.

Retreat Favorites: Veggie Chlli

Vegetable Chili
as prepared by Regina Irvin

Ingredients:

  • 1 TBS olive oil1 tsp butter or margarine
  • 1 TBS minced garlic (3 cloves)
  • 1 TBS chili powder or more to taste
  • ½ tsp of dry mustard
  • ½ tsp of ground cumin
  • ¼ tsp of celery seeds
  • ¼ tsp fresh ground pepper
  • ¾ lb green beans
  • 1 ½ cups carrot slices, cut ¼ inch thick (2 large carrots)
  • 1 cup sliced celery cut on the diagonal, ½ inch thick
  • 1 16 oz can tomatoes with juice reserved
  • 1 cup diced onions
  • 2 cups strips of red and/or green peppers, about ¼ x 1 ½ inches (2 peppers)
  • 1 2/3 cups cooked kidney beans (1 16 ox can with liquid)
  • Plain yogurt to garnish
  1. In a large, deep skillet or shallow saucepan heat the oil and butter, and add garlic, chili powder, mustard, cumin, celery seeds, and black pepper.  Saute the mixture over a low flame, stirring it for 1 to 2 minutes.
  2. Add the green beans, carrots, celery, and ½ cup of juice from canned tomatoes.  Stir the mixture well, cover the pan and cook the mixture about 10 minutes.
  3. Add the onions and the red/green peppers, and cook uncovered another 10 minutes.
  4. Add the tomatoes, their remaining juice, and the kidney beans with their juice, and cook the chili 10 minutes longer.  Serve with a dollop of yogurt if desired.

Retreat Favorites: Kale Salad & Meditation

Kale Salad

  • 1 bag of kale (cut out large stems)
  • Extra virgin olive oil (cold pressed)
  • 2 – 3 cloves of garlic
  • Orange, yellow or red bell pepper (optional)
  • 1 lemon
  • Himalayan salt
  • Turmeric
    (use organic ingredients when possible)

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Place kale in a bowl.  Pour extra virgin olive oil over kale. Squeeze lemon juice over kale (1/2 or whole lemon (taste). Using your hands blend oil and lemon juice until liquid is equally distributed over kale. Using a garlic press.  Press 2 – 3 cloves of garlic. Sprinkle Himalayan salt and turmeric. Chop bell pepper.  Again blend all together.

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Be mindful as you are preparing your kale salad. Feel the textures as you blend the ingredients with your hands. Smell the aromas of garlic, lemon, olive oil and bell peppers. Also see the colors of the ingredients. Taste the flavors and feel the textures as you enjoy eating your salad. Most importantly feel the love you put in to preparing this salad for yourself and or for your loved ones.

Enjoy!

Retreat Favorites: “Faux”bouli

“Faux”bouli
as prepared by Sherry McDaniel Bovey

Ingredients

  • 1/2 cup uncooked quinoa, rinsed and drained
  • 1 cup water
  • 2 Roma tomatoes, seeded and finely chopped
  • 1/2 cup shredded fresh spinach
  • 1/3 cup finely chopped red onion
  • 2 tablespoons lemon juice
  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt

Directions:

  1. In a small saucepan, combine quinoa and water. Bring to boiling. Reduce heat; cover and simmer for 15 minutes or until liquid is absorbed. Place quinoa in a medium bowl.
  2. Add tomato, shredded spinach, and onion to quinoa; stir to combine. In a small bowl, whisk together lemon juice, olive oil, and salt. Add to quinoa mixture; toss to coat.
  3. Makes 4 servings

Note: I tripled the recipe for the retreat.

Retreat Favorites: Curried Vegetable & Chickpea Stew

Curried Vegetable and Chickpea Stew
as prepared by Sherry McDaniel Bovey

Serves 8 – 10

Adapted from Cooking Light

1 large onion, diced
2 all-purpose potatoes, diced
1 tablespoon salt
1 tablespoon curry powder
1 tablespoon brown sugar
1-inch piece ginger, peeled and grated (about 1 tablespoon)
3 garlic cloves, minced
1/8 teaspoon cayenne pepper
2 cups vegetable broth
2 (16-ounce) cans chickpeas, drained and rinsed
1 green bell pepper, diced
1 red bell pepper, diced
1 medium head of cauliflower, cut into bite-sized florets
1 (28-ounce) can diced tomatoes with their juices
1/4 teaspoon black pepper
10-ounces baby spinach
1 cup coconut milk

Heat the oil in a skillet over medium heat. Sauté the onion with one teaspoon of salt until translucent, about 5 minutes. Add the potatoes and another teaspoon of salt, and sauté until just translucent around the edges.

Stir in the curry, brown sugar, ginger, garlic, and chili and cook until fragrant, about 30 seconds. Pour in 1/4 cup of broth and scrape the bottom of the pan to deglaze. Pour this onion-potato mixture into the bowl of your slow cooker.

To the slow-cooker, add the rest of the broth, chickpeas, bell pepper, cauliflower, tomatoes with their juices, the pepper, and the final teaspoon of salt. Stir to combine. The liquid should come half-way up the sides of the bowl; add more broth as necessary. Cover and cook for 4 hours on HIGH.

Stir in the spinach and coconut milk. Cover with lid for 1 minute to allow the spinach to wilt. Taste and adjust salt and other seasonings as needed.

1 teaspoon olive oil

Serve on its own or over couscous, Israeli couscous, or orzo pasta.

Stove-Top Version: Instead of cooking in a slow cooker, simmer the stew over low heat on the stove top in a large Dutch oven or soup pot for 45-60 minutes, or until the potatoes are tender. Add the spinach and coconut milk and stir until the spinach has wilted. Taste and add more seasonings if needed.

2015 Winter Retreat FAQ

Retreat begins at 6:30pm Friday with supper. You’re welcome earlier. The cabins will be available after 4pm. We will finish up at 10:30am Sunday morning.

Address:

Bayou Chicot State Park
3469 Chicot Park Road
Ville Platte, LA 70586

Directions:

Coming from the north on I-49, exit on LA 106 south. Turn left off LA 106 onto LA 3042 south, and continue to the main entrance. From the south, exit I-49 on US 167 and drive toward Ville Platte. In Ville Platte, turn right onto LA 3042/N. Dupre St., then left onto LA 3042/W. Lincoln Rd. Veer right onto LA 3042/Chicot Park Road. Park entrance is about 7 miles down LA 3042.
Deluxe Cabin Area: Cabins CB001 and CB005

Map of the Park: http://www.crt.state.la.us/Assets/Parks/parks/chicot/chicot_parkmap.pdf
Map of Deluxe Cabin Area: http://www.crt.state.la.us/Assets/Parks/parks/chicot/newcabin.jpg
Items Provided: Basic cookware, cooking utensils, dinnerware, silverware, towels and linens.


Things to Bring:

  • Loose comfortable clothing
  • A Notebook and Pens
  • Yoga Mat (if you have one, extras will be available)
  • Umbrella
  • Extra towel
  • Flashlight
  • At least one Vegetarian Dish to share